Can minors go to therapy without parental consent in Canada?

Many teens want help but aren't ready to tell their parents, or are worried about what gets shared. Here's how consent works in Canada and what you can expect from a therapist. This is general information, not legal advice.

The general rule: understanding, not age

A young person doesn't have to reach the age of majority to consent to treatment. In most provinces and territories, the question is whether they have the capacity to understand it (Canadian Medical Protective Association). This is often called the mature minor approach.

Province-by-province differences

WhereHow it works
QuebecGenerally age 14 and up can consent to care. Parental consent is still needed for care with serious risks (CMPA).
New Brunswick16 and up can make health care decisions. Younger teens can if a practitioner finds they understand and it's in their best interests (Siskinds).
ManitobaUnder 16s are presumed not to have capacity, but that can be shown otherwise (Siskinds).
Ontario, PEI, YukonNo minimum age; capacity is what counts (Siskinds).
British ColumbiaA young person can consent if they understand the nature and consequences of the care, and it's in their best interests (Siskinds).
Nova Scotia, Alberta, Newfoundland and Labrador, Saskatchewan, territoriesThe mature minor approach: a young person of any age can consent if mature enough to understand (Siskinds).

The provincial summary comes from a 2014 legal overview; laws can change, so check current rules for your province.

How it works in Nova Scotia

Nova Scotia's age of majority is 19, but no legislation grants or denies minors the right to make these decisions. Professionals decide case by case whether a young person understands the decision. Factors include abstract reasoning (which research links to about age 14), emotional maturity, the support around them, and whether they understand the consequences of agreeing or refusing (Nova Scotia Regulator of Psychology).

In practice: a therapist will usually talk with a teen about what therapy involves and assess their understanding before going ahead. Ask any therapist how they handle this before booking.

What stays private, and what doesn't

A teen who consents to their own therapy generally has the right to privacy. But every therapist has legal limits to confidentiality. Common ones include a serious risk of harm to yourself or someone else, a child being in danger, and a court order. A good therapist explains these at the very start (CCPA Code of Ethics, B2 and B4).

The practical side: paying and booking

Even when a teen can consent, private therapy costs money, and parents' health benefits often pay for it. Using a parent's plan may mean they'll know therapy is happening. If cost or privacy is a barrier, publicly funded and confidential options exist (see Is therapy free for minors in Canada?).

Tips for involving a parent

If you or your teen are in crisis right now, call or text 9-8-8 (Suicide Crisis Helpline, any time), call Kids Help Phone at 1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868, or call 911.

Frequently asked questions

Can a 14-year-old go to therapy without parental consent in Canada?

Often, yes. In most provinces it depends on whether the teen understands the decision, not their age. In Quebec, 14 is generally the age of consent for care.

What is the age of consent for therapy in Nova Scotia?

There's no fixed age in Nova Scotia law. Professionals decide case by case whether a young person understands the decision.

Will my therapist tell my parents what I say?

Generally not, if you've consented to your own therapy, but there are legal exceptions such as a serious risk of harm. Your therapist should explain these at the start.

Can teens get free therapy without their parents knowing?

Some confidential options don't involve a bill to parents, such as Kids Help Phone (1-800-668-6868 or text CONNECT to 686868) and school-based mental health services.

Courtney Cribb

About the author

Courtney Cribb, MEd, RCT, CCC, is a Registered Counselling Therapist in Nova Scotia who works mostly with teens and young adults. Her research on teens and sexting is published in the Canadian Journal of Counselling and Psychotherapy. She offers online sessions by video or phone across Nova Scotia and, where permitted, elsewhere in Canada. Learn about teen therapy with Courtney.

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Sources

  1. Canadian Medical Protective Association: Can a child provide consent?
  2. Siskinds LLP: Consent of minors to medical treatment (2014)
  3. Nova Scotia Regulator of Psychology: Position statement on age of consent
  4. Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association: 2020 Code of Ethics

This article is general information, not medical or legal advice.